wow, with the travel time i would have never suspected, though i guess im dumb since the pic literally shows you on the last stage.
well done im a very symmetrical and exact city planer so to my eyes your settlement is a mess though its a working mess, you've showed me that chaotic layout can still win the day.
im sold

Well this was like my final build. I wanted a huge village for my final run of the game. Its stable around 220 villagers self sufficient with no food shortages

thats nuts, maybe try centralising everything, bringing everything closer together i mean though i warn you if you do it'll be a logistical nightmare and will take awhile. thats my advice on making the losses less extreme

You’re not wrong. Depending on where theyre at and what they're doing i lose 5-20 villagers

thats one hell of a settlement must be a nightmare to defend though